tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7850821605986363020.post1751182311802761140..comments2009-11-07T16:29:46.139-05:00Ikram Hawramanihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12137876168612648219noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7850821605986363020.post-19701381565232014782009-11-07T16:29:46.139-05:002009-11-07T16:29:46.139-05:00nice expanation<br /><br />also, if you have premarital sex, you&#39;ll develop a greed for it which will act like money, the more money you obtain, the more you want. the same acts for this, the more sexual reltionship, the more you want. we have witnessed this many times in history (ie shah parviz of iran).<br /><br />since you develop a greed, it&#39;ll disturb your family relationship as well. for example when you reamin with your wife for a couple of years your developed greed interferes by you want anothr wife. this leads to a divorce. this is one reason.<br /><br />also, when you get married you look at your wife as the person who can please you mentally, physically, etc. and vise versa as well. then, if you have developed this greed your pleasures (again mental pleasures, physical pleasures, family pleasures, etc.) won&#39;t be satisfied by just one person(namely, your wife or husband), it&#39;ll be 100&#39;s of people like one day a blonde, another a brunette, etc.<br /><br />therfore, what Allah (swt) has said for us is for teh benefit of us, for his name is Al-rahman , al-raheem. he wouldn&#39;t want anything that would hurt us, but rather something that would benefit us. right?<br /><br />inshallah allah will guide us all<br /><br />please pray for me<br /><br />wa alaikum al salamAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7850821605986363020.post-78831542603628164022009-11-04T07:01:00.298-05:002009-11-04T07:01:00.298-05:00As Salaamu Alaikum,<br />I am not sure what &quot;handaling&quot; means...Ikram Kurdihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12137876168612648219noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7850821605986363020.post-39693003118511785172009-11-04T00:38:22.849-05:002009-11-04T00:38:22.849-05:00is handaling a haram work? please give me ans.rupokhttp://www.rupok3700.webs.comnoreply@blogger.com